Answering a question

How can I make a move, from the angle in which I am now currently, and consider other angles in my life?

There are a lot of people, who are not flexible in dealing with people, objects, life in general and particular, even with themselves. They love their personal vision and the angle at which they see things, and they don’t trust the views of others, and underestimate them, or be afraid of having different and various experience in their lives..

For work: by making mistakes you’ll learn at work a lot of things, but if you didn’t change your view, style and way, your co-workers will avoid you, and you’ll stand where you are, others will step ahead of you, because you refuse change. Then having one view can kill creativity, as in changing and experiencing a lot of colors around you…how? Don’t always give your opinion on everything you know, act ignorant, and let others some time feel that they’re better than you, so you are the leader here, the leader spreads the spirit and faith in the souls of the team, be self-initiative, to prove that you’re a person with a lot of keys in his career and his professional creative dealing…

For friends: the ordinary person remembers a person and that’s it (doesn’t do anything about it), while the unusual person remembers the person and initiates contacting him and checking on him. So, go ahead and communicate with who fell out of contact, and talk with everyone as you are one of them, not above nor below them, on the same level. Look for friends whom enrich your time and mind, learn from them, ask them to teach you, I don’t know, let them feel that you are like them, accept their criticism, and ask more questions, why? How? What is your opinion? Take their ideas in your plans, counsel them, it’s not a shame..

As for the objects; which is everything you bump into in life, but I’d like to remind you that you forgot the most important thing, which is you, yourself… yourself is the calendar for your Lord, job, people and friends. And how you should make your mind open and ready to open a thousand window, which is to be ready to learn, crazily..to learn anything about everything, and everything about anything. Be a voracious reader, read, read, and vary your readings, don’t only read in religions, read in development, and the books that make you reflect on yourself and examine it in depth, read a novel to revive your imagination, hence, imagination is important to energize the soul and renew your thoughts…

When you fall into a problem or in something that needs more windows to think through, stop and ask yourself, if I did this, what will happen? And if I did that what would it be? That way, you’ll lift up the ceiling of your thinking and imaginations, and open windows for reflection and a dimension of the future..

Abdulaziz Dalloul

Translated by team member

Only when you believe

Truly, when you want to achieve something strongly, sincerely with deep faith and crazy passion to have it, the world will help you whether they love you or envy and hate you, but at the end you will get there and look back to kiss the forehead of all whom helped you, and reached his hand to pull you up, and smile at those who pulled your T-shirt downwards... If Allah wanted good for you it will happen, so Hey O' Heros, we all think of the best for each others, because we're brothers in Allah, isn't that right?

How beautiful

How beautiful is it when you receive a message of gratefulness, appreciation, love and care from people who don't appear on the square, they watch what you are doing from far there, but they are very close to you, they pray for you, smiling with relief and happiness on what you are achieving, they like your words, they believe that what you are doing is really great, the spirit of love, will, aspiration and vigor permeates everything in you, through you and from you... How beautiful it is that you are around me friends..

With what are you going to get closer?

Then, it’s like that, you feel like that the roads you

are taking shuts in your face,

And the attempts here and there doesn’t do any good,

Things get reversed in your mind, and of course in

your life,

In the morning you dream of going back to sleep,

You neglect your diet and say, who cares?

And you lose your social relationships by your negativity

Your thoughts rotten, since you don’t feed them nor

use them

You forget to smile at people, and when you

do, spiritlessly

Today’s machine is very fast that you’re doing your

prayers all together

What’s the solution?

Your Lord, your Lord, and your Lord

If you fixed everything and forgot God

Then God will forget you and you’ll feel miserable and

short of breath

Pray on time,

Glorify Allah and thank him, day and night

And ask him forgiveness, for he is the most merciful,

Pray that he eases on you what you’re going through,

All believers matters are good,

In sickness and health,

All good...

And don't worry, in the Hadith it says:

Narrated Abu Huraira (Radi`Allahu anhu): The Prophet (Sall`Allahu alaihi wasallam) said, "Allah (Subhanuhu wa Ta`ala) says: 'I am just as My slave thinks I am, (i.e. I am able to do for him what he thinks I can do for him) and I am with him if he remembers Me. if he remembers Me in himself, I too, remember him in Myself; and if he remembers Me in a group of people, I remember him in a group that is better than they; and if he comes one span nearer to Me, I go one cubit nearer to him; and if he comes one cubit nearer to Me, I go a distance of two outstretched arms nearer to him; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running.' "

With what are you going to get closer?