Your responsibility

In our lives, we’re like those who practice skydiving, they’re responsible for controlling the precise balance needed in the air and counting the distance to measure the exact time, that’s after specifying the landing area, to push the button on the parachute and land safely on the ground. If the priorities weren’t in their correct time nor organized, neglecting the balance and the distance, are we going to be responsible for our death?

Our values and principles make us responsible towards our actions and behavior; our message in life is our passion and craziness to plant the seeds of desire inside us; goals are our vision in all our spiritual, personal, social, educational, financial, functional, physical, voluntary, entertainment roles. We’re responsible for all those roles, If we don’t desire and decide to pray and repent, develop our minds and raise our skills level, no one will do all that on behalf of us; your brother won’t kiss your parents forehead in your name, there are no means in home with your family; your friend won’t study instead of you, and if you concentrate on cheating methods, you’ll graduate with an empty brain and you won’t appreciate yourself; you won’t lose your weight while you’re eating KFC and Mc all the time, no one will run for you, not even whom loves you, just won’t. the most beautiful thing you can do in your life is taking responsibility, you’ll feel strong, have respect for yourself and people’s respect as well, try it and judge yourself.

You know? It would be nice if there was a medicine for determination and increasing the proportion of success , but unfortunately it doesn’t exist, use your brain and arrange your things O’ hero, no one will care about you if you don’t become special and become an intelligent maniac, insanity is the passion for doing the impossible to achieve your goals, without heading for inhuman ways, such as using others as means, standing on their shoulders, then call them off, or steal and lie to them.

Values are the seeds that sprout roots. The message is the good soil that prepares the seed for growth; making its own way out and achieving its dream. The seed has a dream as well; it’s nothing without water nor soil, or external components. The goals are written down from the beginning of the planting project, and they’re the result that we want to have, and the fruit. The methods of planning come in the trunk of the tree, then the means which are the branches, and the green leaves that represent the attempts, some of them live and other die and burn, not bearing the obstacles like the sun, wind and insects. After that we have achievement, after the determination of the tree and its will on survival, to pick the fruit. Subhan Allah (i.e. glory be to Allah) we’re just like trees, meditate that my friend, meditate.

To take responsibility for yourself, you must fully recognize that you’re responsible for your personal decisions, you won’t blame others, nor complain about others and external causes. Get busy with yourself, concentrate the time on watching yourself and on the ways of proving it, instead of giving time to criticizing others. They’ll step forward and you’ll stay where you are, criticizing this and that, and what an easy job is this. Ask God for help, and you’ll certainly find the result later, don’t rush, I promise you, you’ll feel the difference.

An important point, outright… love yourself, love yourself, love yourself; meaning self-independence, personal responsibility, permissible selfishness; which contains a little bit of care over your own interests, to manage your life with distinction and excellence. So, tell yourself now “I love myself and it’s my right, and I’m proud of myself, I seek correcting my mistakes, work on strengthen my skills and abilities, and I’ll dedicate my time to take care of it with Allah’s help, I won’t give up on my rights, I deserve the best, the beautiful and the great in life. I love myself, because Allah loves me, I love myself, because I’m myself, if I don’t love and take care of it, who will?”

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Your life needs you to take its responsibility,

Responsibility needs you to love yourself,

And loving yourself needs you,

So, are you ready?

Abdulaziz Dalloul

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