How can I change?

All right, how can you know what you really want in your life? You have to think a lot and seriously, think with a deep faith that you can change yourself to the best. It’s easy to say, hard to do, but I see that love pushes you to do the impossible to get what you desire. The inspiring question here is, Do you love yourself? Would you like to become strong? Change your life style, thoughts and behavior? The principle and the value here is Love; it makes you passionate in the inside to achieve your desires, which you want to live, and enjoy without any limits.

It’s your personal love, and you’re the only responsible person about it, you decide what you want in it, and when. You have to count your skills, abilities, experience and write down your important goals and dreams. You might say that you don’t ever have the time to do these stuff, my studies are taking over my mind and doesn’t leave me a space to think of myself, my work is heavy and I don’t have the time to see myself in the mirror, or kiss my mother’s head. Here I tell you, you are not taking care of yourself at all, and you are really neglecting the most important thing in this world, which is You.

if you spend a lot more time in planning, in sitting half an hour at the end of each week to revise your personal things, to prepare a good plan for the following weekend, to put yourself at the top of the priorities, and satisfy yourself before satisfying others, then you’ll find that there’s really a time to spend with yourself. So, be smart and don’t run away from sitting with yourself, admitting your negativities and answering questions that we all hate to answer, such as, what’s your goals? What’s your characters? Skills? Abilities? What do you like to do? Who are you? Where do you want to get to? And why? I used to run always from these questions, because I didn’t know how to find answers for them, and at the end, I sat with myself in the most important hours in my life, to wipe off the dust on my eyes, and refresh my vision in life, in a pure perspective, honest and direct.

So, set a time for tomorrow or now if you want; the important thing that is to set a time to be honest with yourself, and answer these questions, without any disturbance nor mind dispersal, no phone, no internet, but a place to set and rest in; it might be your room, an outdoors place, like the beach. For, privacy is very important to answer these deep survey questions to your mind. And before these self sessions, it’s better to relax your mind and breathe deeply, to kick out the germs, which disturb your thoughts clarity. So, get psychologically, physically and mentally ready to determine your destiny… O’ Great person.

Be yourself

According to principles and rules, and Islamic principles that preserves us, we guide our brains, thoughts and the directions of our movement. So, if you wanted to do something that doesn’t break the law and beliefs, then do it; if you wanted to go to the beach or theater, to run in the street, to eat an ice-cream and enjoy it, to change your car or house, to change the street you walk in, then do it. if it makes you feel relieved and satisfied with yourself, who will question you? You’re the owner of yourself my friend, don’t care about what others might say about you, just do it.

Each one of us has his own approach in life; no one has the key of controlling you not even from a distance. You’re the channel of yourself that you want to always watch and follow-up, you care about its success. So, be yourself as you are, with your decisions, thoughts, nature, childlikeness, love, voice, personality and with your smile… be yourself.

Jealousy / self deception

This word never had a meaning in my life dictionary nor in dealing with others; I wasn’t using it and I never expected it, but after I took an idea about what goes around me, I realized that jealousy is a horrible thing; like a snake that eats your guts when you get jealous of someone who has learned and studied more than you did, or became better than you and stole the spotlights, and started to feel the fame … I never knew that even the stars get jealous of the poets when they write poems for the Moon!

Jealousy ate up brains of successful people, especially when they accomplished a huge success, gather awards for their achievements, reach the Moon and attract an audience behind them to support them. Here, jealousy visits them and induce them, trip them into the quicksand underneath success to sink them. if you were sensible and ran away from jealousy, jealousy will swoops on you from others, who arrived afterwards and achieved a success just like you, and their star glowed fast, or in other words, in ways easier than the ones you took to get to the stage of fame!

Written by: Abdulaziz Dalloul

On Monday, 27 April 2009

Original Post: http://www.azizdalloul.com/2009/04/blog-post_3786.html

Appreciation

Appreciation is very important in our lives, sometimes few might underestimate it, but it’s the source of our breathing through ourselves and others. Appreciation is a vital power that refreshes our minds, easily sneak into our hearts and gives a wonderful effect by drawing a quick and repeated smiles, which are never erased from memories, a beautiful mental picture that never melts.

It’s important to think of the positive things that others do, to orally appreciate them with encouraging words that enthuse their determination on continuing their struggle. With just words you give them a push to help them fly in the sky of creativity, words that praise their efforts and outcome; even if it was something small. There is incorporeal appreciation with paperboard certification; they are either hanged up or hidden in drawers. They have a certain temporary effect that quickly fades away , it’s effect doesn’t last on the long-term, but it’s important, because people ask about it. So, appreciate others with certifications if you were an administrator in your work place, on a project, an institution, a voluntary center… don’t forget that.

I won’t talk about appreciating with material value, because it’s very important, you know what I mean, don’t you? Refreshing by material value is essential in the time being and in the past, but the world’s economical crises left no room for that kind of appreciation. It made it secondary; therefore, they made the long road short and learned different ways to enthuse others with elegant words and certifications designed in an inviting appearance; to give praising in fine touches. So, let’s learn how to appreciate others.

Eid Mubarak!

May you be in good health every year

Beautiful . Happy . Blessed

Abdulaziz Dalloul

Be a Great "Facebooki"

A greeting to all “Facebookis” (i.e. Facebook users) that have a goal through surfing the deep exciting world of internet; plans and work on spreading brilliant, beneficial, beautiful, reviving, thrilling, simple, effective and unique ideas to rise an Islamic Ummah. If you were a “Facebooki” who doesn’t know how to benefit from surfing the internet, then take a deep breath with yourself and your coffee, and think wisely how to benefit from Facebook in an effective way, or the internet, blogs and video channels in general. After five years, there won’t be a physical appearance for companies, buildings, nor television, all that will be on the internet; creativity, bringing up new ideas, continuous discussions and profitable deals. So, make your own opportunity by reserving a place for yourself right now, before time sweeps you away to a place where there’s no internet connection, and become an out of the service “Facebooki”.

Inspiring advice:

Don’t be someone else than yourself, be yourself with your skills With your abilities and gifts that make you unique And know this very well, “thoughts” don’t belong to anyone What’s exciting and important is how to apply what we think in So, don’t copy people’s ideas and imitate their characters, Just… be yourself O’ creative person…

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I started to hold on the ropes around me to maintain my necessary balance to continue in my reality and not in my fantasy. For, fantasy is the sea whereas you never sink, because fantasy doesn’t depend on ropes, threads, anchor nor a drawn frame, and it’s the place where you are a king that never lose. Your fantasy is winning against yourself and against those you did not aim and win against.

Nothing is impossible; I still repeat it and I will till the last day in my life, but there is another sentence, which is “No to the too imaginary goals”. What’s reasonable; a dream that is founded carefully, with accuracy and planning, this is called an under process dream. I believe in my dreams; the first dream is not to be just like any person living in a dream, but a person who translates his dream into reality to become something in the history of this Ummah.

I hate the saying “stretch your legs on the size of your blanket”; in my opinion, it should be changed deliberately and be taught to the coming generations as “if your blanket is small, raise money to buy a bigger one” never settle down for what’s less than you deserve, you and me deserve bigger blankets; very big ones.


Written by: Abdulaziz Dalloul
At 4:07 pm, on Tuesday, 5 MAY 2009

CHANGE

Change is the only constant. Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. Unfortunately, although it is true, everything changes, whether to the best or worst, it is difficult for us to accept it. These are convictions I've read about and became my own. People keep telling me now and then that I've changed (inside& outside) I find myself admitting such a change most of the time..I may like it or may not..Sometimes we change without realizing it. But after a while people will notice and point it out, we will have to face it sooner or later. Change have always been one of the concepts I think about almost on a daily bases.

Written By Shahad Aloufi

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A successful man has the power to find a way, make his own name by himself and market his abilities and skills optimistically. This person gives his attention to others, feel and care about their feelings, asks about their lives, doesn’t complain nor whine from them and listens to them. He’s a person that thinks and acts positively, reflects confidence, activity and enthusiasm all the time to revive the souls around him. He’s like this, happy and pleased with his own self.

In my mind, a thought swims.

Time runs by while you are wandering in an idea, and when you wake up, you find out that you ran out of time. You look for time, but you don't find any; it's better that we don't dream while thinking. Plow your thoughts; capture it if one shines in your mind and write it down. Set a time to apply it and get help from around to accomplish it. Study it if it failed, dialogue and paraphrase it. You are not the only one who failed to achieve a goal. Wake up and don't be like those who think, then over-look their thoughts; not taking actions. Do you have an idea?

Don't Read just to read !