excuse me, respect my mind.

Your mind carries thoughts that reflects your personality, your own view and beliefs in life, so it’s not polite when another person present his thought or belief or even an opinion, you attack him and kill him, or disrespect him by not listening with your heart… Care and Listen to them.

You have a lot of thoughts, but the implementation is frozen, why so? because the goal isn’t clear and the information isn’t enough, therefore, There are no motivations that make achieving the goal possible… and the solution?You look for information? Clarity?

For what?

For the value of the thing you are doing...

What’s it affect on you and the amount of your enthusiasm in what you do...

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Think in a thought, start putting a plan and put it in progress… even if you took a long time, the important thing is that you thought and started doing something, it’s better than doing nothing.

Advertise yourself

Make your personal brand and learn how to market yourself to others as a unique and special advertisement; attract people powerfully, make them love you and become fans of yours and respect you as a human, brain, intellect and a personality. Don’t forget what’s important, which is your morals, dealing and respect with others, attention, admiration, your love to them; all that reflects on you.

Market your skills in a smart way, announce your abilities, and advertise your talents. Don’t hesitate the moments you can present in your creativities to the people, whoever they were, for example, if he was your boss, he might tells you that its better for you to get back to your job, but it’s all right, he will admire that he has creative employees and he won’t forget you. Even if he was an ordinary person, he will give you his opinion, criticize you rudely and he might say things that would change your life.

You can use the internet, facebook and blogs to present your ideas. Do you see advertisements for a product only on TV? Use all the ways to support your appearance, you deserve to have a name in the world, what do you think? Go to crowded places, and use these places wisely; speak, participate, think, discuss and talk about yourself. If you wanted to be quiet, and then listen to them, it’s beneficial. Don’t underestimate your brain and think that it counts as arrogance, I see it as the smartest thing to do, to advertise everywhere your products for free.

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Define your products and develop them, take good care of them, It’s your fortune, pay attention to it… And remember that others won’t advertise for you, So start advertising yourself now…

::: Against the grain :::

You study well and fail, work hard and get no results, compete with others and find the infection of envy and jealousy in you, seek for the best and doesn’t get the expected chance, fight for your goals and do not achieve a small progress, raise up to the top and fall in the middle of the way… you don’t find back-up to complete your journey, you search for a friend but no one likes you; because you are to them strange, complicated, intellectual, not funny, serious, hard worker and because you respect time and pray!

A waterfall of criticism pours on you from every side, because you want to achieve a small success, and it never ends till you achieve something real… because people don’t believe in your dreams…

You smile because you want to smile, but you don’t find anyone that smiles back at you, so you close your mouth and feel sad, you help others and they think you are looking up for an interest; you give your opinion, speak frankly, logically and with integrity, but doors closes up in your face… Yet, you feel happy and you smile, because Allah is with you.

Written by: Abdulaziz Dalloul

On Monday, 27 April 2009

Original Post: http://www.azizdalloul.com/2009/04/29.html

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You know, it’s really painful to know what is right; the right ways and the truth, but you don’t implement, apply, act nor achieve anything, as if your “Nafs” obstinate you. The solution is simple, go to an isolated place, where no one can hear you, and scream out the sleeping bacteria in your brain, shake your senses and numb feelings, to revive and wake up from the “temporary inattention”, which kills the person if he disregarded it for a period of time, do you know what am I talking about? I’m talking about mental lethargy; when you accept to hearing negative words from others and yourself, and accept indecent behaviors, actions and bad habits, whether with your God, self or others.

There are times when man gives up on his tasks and goals, his ambitions and dreams, on the things he believes in and wishes to achieve to satisfy himself. This cycle has many reasons; turning away from Allah, parental dissatisfaction, deceiving oneself and surrounding environment, psychological discomfort, friends who Depress your energy and creativity, and you might be the first depressor of your own, or your brother, sister or any close person to you. That’s why we have to be careful and watch out for these small things which leave huge effect on our lives.

Abdulaziz Dalloul

When you are trying to achieve something that puts you on the top, you go through phases of self-doubt, listen to people that discourage you, then your mind think of giving up and you lose your determination… I advice you, be sure that it’s a period that you have to go through to reach the summit, get enough sleep, and regain your power in seeking your dream.

Written by: Abdulaziz Dalloul

To be Frank

Don’t allow people to be better than you, and achieve their goals through your sympathy or stir you out of your circle of interest and tendency, steal your mind and thought and attack your heart. There are dictatorial people who try to practice their authority on you and slave you, so that your star won’t shine above them; they make you a delegate to implement their goals and personal belongings. Be a leader of your own, determined, refuse to submit, take responsibility, begin your tasks, take care of yourself and remember that you have your own goals.

Start giving free services to others, because you want to do that out of your desire, and don’t wait to be thanked, because you’ll wait long to hear it. Communicate with love and enjoy everything you do, interact with people in intimacy and humility and help them even if they didn’t appreciate everything you do for them. You might find who misunderstand you, get jealous of you, envy you, resents you and doesn’t sleep the night, thinking of how he can beat you and be distinguished, this is the nature of humans and the law of life, we have to deal with it before we lose it while trying to solve it. Attribute the favor to God, praise God in all your deeds and have a sincere intention; attending good deeds is a bless, so use it wisely.

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Don’t give anyone in the world the power to move

you away from your goal,
And your goal is to find yourself and discover it,
Express your inner-hidden talents,
And translate your abilities in your unlimited creativity.

Abdulaziz Dalloul

Polishing yourself

If you weren’t busy in polishing your talents and abilities, developing and improving yourself to bring success into your life, then you are busy in watching TV, listening to music, playing a video game, chatting or in a café for entertainment… here, be sure that you’re a lazy person, and the cure for that is excellence with a little bit of greed to become active and effective in your society… and I mean by greed is to think of the things that benefits you, and how to use your mental and physical abilities for your own good, so a little bit of greed is useful, even if the meaning was undesirable, but it makes you a successful person after Allah’s will…

Abdulaziz Dalloul

Opinion and self-esteem

You can accomplish all your goals, if you set them yourself. Who ensures that you are the best, or the smartest, or the most effortful, or the most capable person on competing with others, and sitting on the first-place throne? Your doctor, friends, family? It doesn’t matter if they said that you can’t achieve your goals, what matters the most is what you say about yourself. What you think of yourself is not the people’s opinion about you…continue your struggle, given efforts and self-development, it’s your life my friend, live it the way you would like it to be.

Abdulaziz Dalloul

Ups & Downs

There has to be ups and downs in the level of your performance, whether personal, career, educational, social, spiritual or financial. It’s very natural and useful to have some kind of relaxation, comfort and time to question yourself, correct your mistakes, prepare for a new begin and accept the shocks, setbacks, the slipping slopes and the situations of failure. We all seek for balance in our lives, to avoid feeling guilty or Shortened in any of these matters, so start with the priorities, wake your values and principles up, and make a new deal with yourself. It’s not what you do, but how you do it and the method you follow to do things is what is important to have consent from God, and self-satisfaction.

Abdualziz Dalloul