How can I change?

All right, how can you know what you really want in your life? You have to think a lot and seriously, think with a deep faith that you can change yourself to the best. It’s easy to say, hard to do, but I see that love pushes you to do the impossible to get what you desire. The inspiring question here is, Do you love yourself? Would you like to become strong? Change your life style, thoughts and behavior? The principle and the value here is Love; it makes you passionate in the inside to achieve your desires, which you want to live, and enjoy without any limits.

It’s your personal love, and you’re the only responsible person about it, you decide what you want in it, and when. You have to count your skills, abilities, experience and write down your important goals and dreams. You might say that you don’t ever have the time to do these stuff, my studies are taking over my mind and doesn’t leave me a space to think of myself, my work is heavy and I don’t have the time to see myself in the mirror, or kiss my mother’s head. Here I tell you, you are not taking care of yourself at all, and you are really neglecting the most important thing in this world, which is You.

if you spend a lot more time in planning, in sitting half an hour at the end of each week to revise your personal things, to prepare a good plan for the following weekend, to put yourself at the top of the priorities, and satisfy yourself before satisfying others, then you’ll find that there’s really a time to spend with yourself. So, be smart and don’t run away from sitting with yourself, admitting your negativities and answering questions that we all hate to answer, such as, what’s your goals? What’s your characters? Skills? Abilities? What do you like to do? Who are you? Where do you want to get to? And why? I used to run always from these questions, because I didn’t know how to find answers for them, and at the end, I sat with myself in the most important hours in my life, to wipe off the dust on my eyes, and refresh my vision in life, in a pure perspective, honest and direct.

So, set a time for tomorrow or now if you want; the important thing that is to set a time to be honest with yourself, and answer these questions, without any disturbance nor mind dispersal, no phone, no internet, but a place to set and rest in; it might be your room, an outdoors place, like the beach. For, privacy is very important to answer these deep survey questions to your mind. And before these self sessions, it’s better to relax your mind and breathe deeply, to kick out the germs, which disturb your thoughts clarity. So, get psychologically, physically and mentally ready to determine your destiny… O’ Great person.